I remember one of my first days. Picture it: my debut as a management consultant in the heart of Washington, DC. The room buzzed with anticipation as fifty-plus industry leaders gathered on the first day of the two-day management development workshop. I was part of a two-consultant facilitation team, a senior consultant and newbie consultant. I was the latter and tasked to deliver the easiest chapter. It was a chapter on discipline. I stepped up front in the hotel conference room; suit pressed, support team in the back, notes and projector ready, all eyes of the audience on me.
I froze.
What seemed like an eternity was only about 15 seconds. All the practicing and getting ready seemed to vanish in an instant. I remember the senior consultant’s face. He wasn’t mad or upset. He just smiled and nodded. I quickly glanced away and caught a woman’s face at the front, and she seemed to signal with her expression, “You’ve got this.” And then, my words kicked in – slowly and awkwardly. As the next 15 seconds passed, I hit my stride.
That began my growth journey as a sales, management and leadership consultant. In a way, I learned as much as all the owners, managers and leaders in that one 30-minute chapter review. Since then, I have delivered thousands of workshops and speeches. One constant thread in all of them, I kept learning and I keep growing.
“To me, a leader is someone who holds her- or himself accountable for finding potential in people and processes.” – Brene Brown
Unveiling Growth: The Power of Intentional Growth
In our journey through both professional and personal realms, I’ve come to realize that intentional learning is akin to the air we breathe—essential for our growth and development. To constantly and consistently seek understanding through a variety of ongoing sources. To develop oneself in some type of growth routine. Maybe it’s a daily, weekly or monthly commitment to always be learning something. Maybe it’s plugging into resources like books, videos, websites, seminars, classes, etc. Striving to learn on purpose, for purpose.
Embracing Uncertainty: Moments of Intentional Learning
I have also found that growth can come out of very unexpected places. Maybe we didn’t plan for a thing to happen; it does, and we improvise and do the best we can. Take something as unforeseen as COVID. That season not only challenged the status quo and “normal” ways to do things, it also provoked adaptation and the “new normal” – writing new proverbial chapters on what to do as we go. I believe we can inevitably learn a great deal about who we are and who we are becoming in seasons of uncertainty, adversity and desperation. Let’s be real, there are some things that can only learned in disruption and hardship.
Regardless of the when or how in our inflection point, change is inevitable. Learning is our choice. And owning that choice becomes a stimulant for growth.
Navigating Change: Lessons in Intentional Growth
- Firstly, from day one to now, what have you learned about yourself?
- Secondly, what specific moments have contributed to your growth?
- Moreover, what have your successes and failures taught you?
- Additionally, what makes up your ongoing development routine?
- And finally, if you have a team, and I asked them to describe your mindset about growth, what would they say?
So, as you go through your own journey, consider the milestones that have shaped you, the lessons learned from both success and failure. While change may be inevitable, it is our commitment to learning that propels us forward on the path of continuous improvement.
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