Feb 2, 2026
I’ve got a deadline.
Ever have a distinct deadline? The time when we had to complete something targeted by a certain date in a week or month. Even writing this, I typically must get my blog article done by the last day of the month, so that the marketing team can post it on the first Monday of the next month.
The word ‘Deadline’ seems overtly harsh. If you look at the origin of the word, it makes sense. It originated during the American Civil War, specifically at the infamous confederate Andersonville prison. You see, there was a boundary line that wrapped around the prison camp…part literal, part figurative…and if any prisoner crossed over that line, they would be shot. Hence, the “dead line”.
Therefore, it is no wonder why there can be perceived unease and anxiety associated with getting close to any deadline. It can even spark fear of not making the date. We can ‘sweat’ getting things done with a deadline, by a deadline, under a deadline, or past a deadline.

Does every plan require a deadline?
If we are discussing certain specific projects or initiatives, then yes. Some plans have fixed, rigid deadlines with exact structure, time-sensitivity, or potential expectations from others or for others. Some do not. In fact, some of the most common this time of year are personal goals or self-directed goals that involve more flexible or ongoing plans without being bound by hard, unchangeable deadlines.
So, maybe the better question is “What’s the why behind my plan?”
Because whether our plan has a deadline or not, every plan starts with a reason for being. And any proposed deadline plays a part in that bigger purpose. Most plans do not require a deadline, but every plan must have a purpose.

Plans require what exactly?
Well, as aforementioned, a purpose is critical. From there, it depends on the path between where we are and where we want to go. Said another way, a desired strategic outcome (plan) will always be dictated by relative tactical means (situational and improvisational responses). The military has a name for this, Commander’s Intent. The simple meaning is that the desired objective never changes, however the means to achieve it will always be dependent on the current circumstances. In other words, plans will change based on what the leader sees in real time and as the battle variables unfold.

Plans are great until after you start.
Let’s add another consideration to Commander’s Intent. I have written about preparation before and alluded to the necessity of having a plan. I have touched on various things that go into a plan. I always recall these two quotes about plans. One from Dwight D. Eisenhower, “Plans are worthless, but planning is everything.” And the other from Mike Tyson, “Everyone has a plan until they get punched in the face.” Either one…they suggest planning is key, until you get into the thick of it. Plans become worthless once the unknown and adversity hits, and true success comes from the ability to adapt to unexpected challenges in real-time.

So, let’s be real, if you have a plan in place with a firm deadline in mind, or it’s a fluid and adaptable idea, how will you know you are there? Are you at a place you need or want to be? Obviously, having met a deadline means we met the time requirement. That is good. But what about everything else that makes up the purpose, plan, and performance? Sometimes, our mindset outpaces time and deadlines.
I wonder what was going on in the mind of the union soldier in 1864. “I understand what can happen if I cross the dead line. But the bigger thing for me is… I’m stuck in a prison camp.”

If you’re interested in creating a plan, consider the following questions.
- Reflect on a recent plan. Make note of all the components. How did it go?
- Think of a current plan – either being made or already made – Why that plan?
- What are all the ingredients for this plan?
- What is essential to complete this plan?
- Who else is involved? What and how do they contribute?
- In what ways will you track/measure progress and success?
- How will you know you have fully moved from “to-do” to “done”?
- How much time do you “really” give yourself to achieve the goal? What’s your deadline?
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Jan 2, 2026
New Year, New Me.
Every year, I believe, we wake up embracing a New Year, and then immediately think it’s a start over. Clean slate. Fresh start. Square one. Blank page. Maybe even new beginning, or new ending for that matter. Yeah, it’s new. But every day represents new opportunity to do something extraordinary. The thing is, it doesn’t take a December 31st and January 1st to provoke some magical pivot. We carry all our past, current, and future into 12:01 A.M.
As far as the calendar year goes, we do step into a brand-new year. And it may very well be a time when we reflect on the past twelve months and consider what to do next; be it different, more of the same, amplification, and maybe even a complete 180. It is also a time when we may seek some insight and advice from others as we consider our plan for the year ahead.

A good time for advice.
I recently received a subscribed email from one of my favorite thought leaders, Dan Pink. In it, he highlighted his take on some bad advice. In his vlog, Life Advice That Sounds Good, But That Will Destroy You, he shared five common pieces of advice we often get from others and his reasoning why they are not good for us. I figure now is a very good time to contemplate their meaning and intention as we make potential resolutions or commitments to get “better” in 2026.

You can be anything you want to be.
Think about this one. Can you really be “anything”? Pink suggests, “Try lots of stuff. Experiment. Play around with different skills, subjects, and areas. By all means, pursue your dreams. If you’re both open-minded and hard-headed, though, you’ll learn you can’t be anything. But you can become really good at a few things.” Bottom line, I would worry less about being or doing anything and just focus on where you already have skills and abilities.

It’s not what you know, it’s who you know.
I remember starting my consulting career and a “mentor” telling me how the critical part of starting a business is the importance of networking. And I don’t disagree with the power and influence of working it. I also came to realize if what we do isn’t creating any impact, no one will be interested. Pink shares, “Who you know is the byproduct, not the strategy. The real strategy is what you do. If you do excellent work, if you keep your promises, if you treat people well, the right people will usually find their way into your orbit. So, don’t waste time collecting contacts like Pokémon cards. Waste them getting good at something real. Because when you do, the who you know part often takes care of itself.” Just get good at what you do. The networking connection will naturally follow.

Follow your passion.
All the “motivational gurus” say that “Do what you love, and you will never work a day in your life”. I agree and don’t. I believe you will have a sense of joy and fulfillment, and still work, and it won’t always be easy-peasy. Pink’s call to action is “Forget about following your passion. Instead, watch what you do, find a torture you can tolerate, and discover what you can contribute to the world.” I would add, passion and purpose may not always be obvious, clear, or easily discerned. It may take trial, effort, and time. So, make it about the journey and not the destination. Keep following your curiosity and intuition, your passion will show up.

Make a plan and follow it.
Not a bad idea. Except I wonder how many of you have started with a plan only to quickly realize it needed to change as soon as you started. Pink states, “When we look at people who’ve achieved, who’ve gone from one point on the success chart to a much higher point on the success chart, we think the path there was smooth and carefully planned. But in almost every case…they revised and experimented their way to becoming great.” Simply put, embrace the goal and then accept that the ways and means to achieve the goal will always change. Know the ‘why’ and the ‘how’ will follow.

Always be positive.
Pink tells us, “We want to be positive most of the time. And yet, we shouldn’t always be positive. Negative emotions are instructive. They clarify the world, teach important lessons. Frustration nudges us to figure out alternative paths forward. Regret helps us learn from our mistakes and do better next time.” I contend positivity should never be exclusive of negativity and vice versa. We need both and in varying degrees at different times. Because leveraging both helps us to achieve more. And isn’t that what we do as we step out of one year and into the next. We bring both together to move forward. Advice and Correction.

Listen to advice and accept correction, in the end, you will be wise.
This is a popular paraphrase of the biblical verse Proverbs 19:20, emphasizing that embracing guidance and discipline leads to wisdom. And isn’t that the way we want to step into the new year – with a little wisdom. Wisdom comes from our reflection. We seek insight, ideas, and inspiration into who we are striving to be, what we need to do, and how we move forward. And it comes from experience. We also consider the discernment required in the change, flexibility, perseverance, and acceptance that follows.

The wisdom found in the resolutions and commitments isn’t born of the aspirations. It’s realized in knowing what we do and doing what we know. So, my advice, enjoy the journey. Happy New Year!
If you’re interested in reflecting on the year and finishing strong, consider the following questions.
- Asking this again from last month, how would you assess your year in review?
- Consider the gap between where you’ve been and where you want to go, what’s the most obvious next step?
- What are you already good at and could take a bit further?
- Where do you find passion? What things bring you joy?
- How do you construct plans? What do you typically do when those plans change?
- In what ways do you leverage your positivity? And negativity?
- How would rate your adaptability?
- Who has given you “good advice”, what was it, and how did you do with it?
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Dec 1, 2025
Are we there yet?
The last month of the year is naturally a time to consider the year in review. Think about all the ideas and aspirations at the beginning. Maybe we made specific resolutions. Maybe we had a thing we wanted to build out and see through to the end. Maybe it was something we adjusted and had to flex because the projected outcome wasn’t what we thought. Maybe it was an issue or challenge that popped up out of nowhere. Maybe we thought it, did it, and it was awesome.

Regardless of what it was, or is, or could yet be, there comes a time when we assess our progress. We analyze what it’s been like, what’s happened, and what it’s like now. Have we kept to our goals and objectives? If so, how has it turned out? If not, what have we learned?
Time for reflection.
A year-end reflection is a process of looking back at the past year to evaluate accomplishments, challenges, and lessons learned, which helps us to understand ourselves better. It makes sense of our experiences by reviewing what went well and what didn’t, identifying key relationships, and recognizing areas for improvement. It guides us toward our goals for the future, even if they are immediate and a couple of weeks or so away from being realized.

Here’s something you and I can do. Make a list of all the things from the start; all the things we wanted to accomplish. Create a list with columns like initial thoughts, those involved, milestones, obstacles, outcomes, and what remains. Contemplate what we thought would happen and what actually did happen, and the gaps in-between. That’s where the real learning resides…in the gaps. Own the gaps and then make the decisions in moving forward.
Starting strong is good. Finishing strong is epic.
Robin Sharma shared that. Simply put, it’s not how we start, it’s how we finish. Because let’s be real, we all have great intentions in the beginning. The real impact is what we do as we continue to do our best with what we are given. Life is like a box of chocolates – we don’t know what we’re going to get. We respond accordingly and keep moving forward with every choice we make.
The past is gone, and the future has not yet happened, so the only moment that truly exists and is within our control is the present moment. Maybe that’s the secret sauce when we’re in the last month – that it’s doesn’t matter if we’ve met, failed to meet or even exceeded our goals and objectives from the year. What really matters is that we are fully, intentionally, and joyfully doing the best we can in the present moment.

The past does not have to play a part in the future.
Clearly the past will indicate where we’ve been, but it doesn’t have to dictate where we go next. And I wholeheartedly believe that is the critical part in finishing strong. As Carl Jung said, “We are not what has happened to us. We are what we choose to become.” It suggests that while our history is a part of who we are, especially in what has transpired in the past year, our future is determined by the conscious decisions we make to start, stop, continue, change, and grow forward right here, right now.

If you’re interested in reflecting on the year and finishing strong, consider the following questions.
- How would you assess your year in review?
- What represented your achievements and your failures? What did you learn from each?
- What changed? What stayed the same?
- Who benefited from your collaboration?
- How did you respond to adversity, chaos, and disruption?
- What specific things could you have done more of and less of?
- If you had to do the year over again, what would you do differently?
- And if someone watched your year in review, what would they have seen and said?
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Nov 3, 2025
Energy Is an Exhaustible Resource: How to Maintain Energy During the Retail Rush
It’s often said that energy is like raw material; it’s exhaustible. “The more you use, the less you have.” In contrast, “Knowledge is a growing resource, the more you use, the more you have”.

Both ideas are at play during the busy, high-pressure retail sales season. While energy depletion is something every associate feels, the power of accumulated knowledge is often underappreciated and less discussed. During Q4, every fast-paced interaction, every customer conversation, and every creative solution you provide builds valuable experience, and that’s knowledge that fuels growth.
Energy, on the other hand, is what drives performance in retail. It is top of mind and on everyone’s radar throughout each day of the holiday season. Its focus seems mathematical. Knowledge is about addition, and energy is about subtraction. The reality is that when it comes to energy, enthusiasm, or any other variety of words like zeal, gusto, vigor, spiritedness, oomph, snap, and moxie; there’s only so much in the tank, and an empty tank affects everything.
Think of Energy as the Lifeblood of Retail
Energy is more than a physical resource; it’s the lifeblood of retail success. It’s what fuels great customer experiences, drives team engagement, and sustains motivation during long shifts and heavy traffic days. It’s what we bring to our job when we provide the best wireless experience to every customer, every time. Our energy represents a vital, life-giving, and even fun element that is essential for both the existence and success of what we do and how we do it.
When your energy tank is full, tasks feel easier. Customer interactions flow naturally. You’re upbeat, motivated, and open to challenges. But when your energy runs low, every task feels harder. Conversations drag, enthusiasm fades, and frustration builds. Managing your energy effectively is key to staying productive, positive, and balanced, especially during the holiday shopping season.

Mind Your Energy Levels During Peak Season
Let’s be real, your energy levels will be tested during this time of year. You’ll feel tired, stressed, and maybe even overwhelmed. That’s normal. What matters most is how you protect and restore your energy.
You’re not perfect, you’re human. Pause, breathe, and consider three simple things during this busy time of year.
- Be Realistic About What You Can Do
There’s only so much time and energy in a day. Prioritize your most important tasks and focus on what truly moves the needle. Delegate when possible, and don’t get caught in the trap of trying to do everything at once. Remember the 80/20 rule. Focus on the 20% of effort that drives 80% of results. Yes, we have monthly targets, and all we have that requires focus and energy are the moments right in front of us. Simply put, take one step at a time, one moment at a time, one day at a time.
- Identify and Leverage Your Support Network
No one gets through the holiday season alone. Identify the people, systems, tools, and resources that can accentuate what we do and alleviate the questions and confusion in how we do it. A strong peer network not only lightens the workload but also recharges your motivation. Collaboration keeps energy flowing across the entire team.
- Fuel your Body and Mind
We have a tank, and it needs to be filled regularly. We fill it with balanced meals to sustain energy and essential hydration to stay alert and refreshed. Prioritize quality sleep and moments of mindfulness to keep your mind and body aligned. Even something as simple as wearing comfortable shoes can make a big difference in maintaining stamina throughout the day.

Manage Your Energy, Not Your Time
Time is fixed; energy is flexible. You can’t create more hours in the day, but you can protect and nurture your energy. During this demanding season, focus on balance and boundaries. Prioritize self-care, rest, and recovery. Choose joy where you can.
An empty energy tank doesn’t just affect you, it affects your customers, your teammates, and your results. Protect it. Refill it. Value it.
Questions to Help You Reflect and Refill
If you’re interested in going a little deeper with maintaining energy during busy times, consider the following questions.
- How do you define energy, physically, mentally, and emotionally?
- What does the holiday retail season typically feel like for you?
- What are your biggest stress triggers and energy drainers?
- How do you usually recover when you’re feeling overwhelmed?
- What specific things “empty your tank,” and what activities “fill it”?
- Who in your circle could benefit from this conversation or support you in it?
- What would an ideal flow state look like for you during a high-energy day?
Final Thought
Energy isn’t infinite, but it is manageable. The more intentional you are about protecting it, the more sustainable your joy and performance will be throughout the season. Remember: in retail, your energy is your superpower. Keep it charged.
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Jun 7, 2023
A plan in action rarely stays the same.
The minute we step into executing our idea (putting it into action), we simultaneously begin considering and assessing our first few steps.
- Was this the right idea?
- Am I doing it “right”? What does “right” even look like?
- Does the effort and behavior make sense?
- Is there buy-in, and why? Push back, and why?
- How would I qualify my response to what’s going on?
- Are my motives the same?
- Are others benefiting?
- Am I getting better? Or worse?
- What needs to stop, what needs to change, and what do I need to keep doing?
- If it’s going well, at least at first, am I making note of what’s working?
- If it’s not, at first, am I pivoting and tweaking my next steps?
Ideas in action. According to plan. And then after you get started, does the plan really stay the same?

The Power of Pivot.
Dwight D. Eisenhower, supreme allied commander in World War Two and 34th President famously said, “Before a battle, planning is everything. Once the fighting has begun, it’s worthless.” He also said, “Plans are worthless, but planning is everything.” Eisenhower was known as a master planner within his military career. His abilities to identify the vision, get the right people together to work it through, and then keeping them together and collaborating towards its execution is legendary.
His view of the plan in action is one of realism. Even the best laid plans require change. Great at the beginning, problematic in their follow through. Not because they are bad, rather, because things change in the moment. Why? Because of the variables. The unexpected and uncertain. We get into our action, and very quickly begin to realize, what we thought would happen is not what we get. It’s in that ownership we see the power of the pivot. To keep the idea, and the vision of the desired outcome top of mind, while accepting that the means to achieve it will change. And then doing so.
Maybe a question to ask just after we start with all the unexpected…are we willing to stick with it?
Desire determines Dedication, and Dedication directs Discipline.
Very rarely does something pan out the way we want. Take going to the gym. We love the idea of going to the gym until we walk through the doors, and everything we thought goes out the door. Where do I start? Which station? Someone is camping at the station I want. What makes for good form? How many sets – how many reps? People here know what they are doing, and I don’t…YET. How will we pivot in that moment? Great intentions will only get us so far. It takes discipline to stick with it. It requires energy to create momentum and even more resolve to keep moving into the disruption and discomfort of growing solidified behavior…that’s different.
Bottom line, if our motives in the idea and plan are wholehearted, then any lack of knowledge will get filled in. Get started and try. Fail, learn, try again. Succeed, keep trying. Fail, pivot, keep moving forward. There is nothing we can’t do, once we get over the wall of impossibility in our mind. The secret…you don’t stop trying and never stop moving forward.

Be Water.
Martial Artist and Actor Bruce Lee said this about our ability to adjust to what comes our way. His wisdom…we should be formless, like water. That if we avoid having a rigid mindset, we will find our way around and through what is getting in the way.
The minute we start engaging in our plan is the exact moment we also need to start adjusting, adapting, and improvising our plan. Fostering a flexibility to move in the plan as water moves along a creek bed. With each rock or obstacle, it flows over, under, around, and sometimes through. It is simply adjusting the flow to keep moving forward. Following the same route and having the defined destination, all bodies of water adjust to the environment they are given.
The End Justifies the Means.
OK, being real, there is always a risk. That our view of what we are doing or the desired outcome is so intensely believed, that we may do anything to accomplish our goal. Which may mean doing something that goes against our values, does not align with fair, equitable or moral standards of others, or simply puts our needs way above the needs of others. The big question will be in that moment, can you live with breaking rules or losing righteousness to meet the desired end? I get winning at all costs. That doesn’t make it the right thing to do. That’s the little tension in creating a legacy…between irresponsible achievement of the goal and responsible ownership of the vision.
Once You Start, Don’t Stop.
If I could only share one bit of advice regarding living out an idea, I would simply say don’t stop. Unless, it takes care of itself without any effort from you, or it shows itself as the wrong thing to do – for us or others. Otherwise, pivot in the moments when change is required. Add or subtract as needed. Keep building skill, muscle memory, and routine. And never stop getting after it.
At some point habit kicks in, and our discipline turns into devotion. More on that later.