Turning Hard Tasks Into Growth
I offered this in a conversation with someone I am mentoring. They were lamenting about the difficulty of doing this specific task. As they shared their process, they seemed stuck in only one way to do it, and they couldn’t get past a mental wall they had created in getting it done.
Their focus struck me as misdirected. They seemed to place all their focus on the task. The task seemed to be their tripping point each day. It was hard. It just seemed impossible to do.
Ok, I get it: a task can be hard to do. Until it isn’t. We eventually figure it out. Another thing, two people can look at and engage in the same task. For one, it’s hard. For the other, it’s easy. Same task. What’s the difference?
It’s NOT Rocket Science.
I have used this idiom before, and it especially strikes a nerve with team members who may struggle with specific tasks. The meaning of the saying is obvious. It defines a task or concept as simple, easy to understand, and not complex. It is used to reassure us that this requires little specialized knowledge, often implying that a task should be easy to complete.
Easy is relative, though, isn’t it? Whatever the job or industry, all tasks come with their own brand of easy and hard. So, our response in qualifying what we get to do will always be subjective, personal, and dependent on experience, perspective, and circumstance.
Maybe our challenge is engaging others, asking a question or two, or closing the sale. Why? Why is this particular task hard? Or why is it hard for me and not for someone else? Or what’s the root cause underneath my saying this, feeling it, or realizing whatever the adjective is what it is?
My advice would be to start with some curiosity – ask why. Before we make it “rocket science”, let’s figure out if we are really unpacking the science of rocketry or merely doing whatever it is consistently and with purpose.
Easy Things Should Be Easy, and Hard Things Should Be Possible.
Let’s be real, the goal is to make hard or difficult tasks easier and to find the best and most efficient ways to make that happen. However, sometimes we choose easy or easier because we want to avoid the hard or difficult stuff. Call it the path of least resistance. Why choose that?
Well, it can be a couple of things. It can be psychological and behavioral tendencies to prioritize comfort, simplicity, and no pushback over labor-intensive, high-risk alternatives. We may want to minimize physical or mental exertion. Sometimes it’s our hardwiring. Our brain favors known, repetitive behaviors over the mental effort of decision-making and overcoming challenges when things get hard. And face it, sometimes we just get lazy, and easy trumps hard.
Imagine a wall. An obstacle that can trip us up. A thing to overcome and keeps us from our mission of getting to the other side. We can go over it, around it, or even through it. Or we could take the easy way out…turn around and walk away. The thing is, the other side is our mission. It will require intentional effort. Therefore, hard will be our pathway to achievement. With pain comes gain.
Bottom line, if easy is easy…fine, let it be so. If what we have is hard and it needs to be hard, don’t choose the comfortable path. Choosing this path can lead to wasted potential, mediocrity, and avoiding necessary personal growth. Acknowledge the task as hard, accept the challenge, and resolve to overcome the extra effort and do the next right thing.
Remember, Simple Doesn’t Mean Easy.
Essentially, this suggests a task or concept can be straightforward, clear, and uncomplicated to understand, yet still require immense effort, discipline, or even flexibility to execute. The challenge seems to lie between the simplicity of understanding and ease of execution. It still begs the question, what makes tasks perceived as ‘hard’ easy or at least easier?
Case in point: I have been with team members who shy away from doing specific tasks as part of their selling routine. Why? They say it’s hard. I wonder is the task too hard or the fear too great? Is it doubt? Is it that they’re uncomfortable to make happen? Because it doesn’t appear to be the task itself. It seems like it is more a skillset-thing. Maybe even a mindset-thing. Either way, the task doesn’t change.
Well, to be fair, yes, tasks can go through change. Maybe they alter due to new or better efficiencies or pivot in direction and focus. Even though it’s still an expectation, the next step is how we get it done. The change we bring into the next step is about the choice we make in how we engage our ability and attitude – our approach.
And that was my challenge and encouragement to the team members. First, find a different “why” – you may need to reframe the question and change your attitude about the answer. Next, take it apart. Break it down into smaller tasks or steps. Rearrange them if needed. Then, study what’s in front of you. Seek to better understand and learn from different perspectives, like asking someone else about their approach. And then, put it back together and engage in it one thing at a time. With a dedicated focus, we’ll find the task doesn’t change its being-ness, we change our doing-ness.
Today, the main thing is to keep it simple. Yes, things can and will be hard to do. BUT, when we invest in them and improve our skillset and mindset to do them, with time and commitment, they become easier. The task AND our ability to do it.
If you’re looking to move from simple to easy, and easy to easier, consider the following questions.
- Define easy, or hard, or any other adjective that comes to mind.
- Where and when does it typically show up in your day-to-day?
- Is this task part of our routine or something we’ve never done before?
- What have you done to better understand and become knowledgeable about it?
- What’s the real issue – the task or our attitude about the task?
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